Love the Way it Hurts

Have you ever felt this way that you are (in a situation/s),

In a marriage, you have an evidence that your better half is cheating on you, at first you will only feel the heartache (not the anger) because of loving your wife so much and because of the grace of God that He gave to you when you both promised in your church wedding that you will live each other as one.

And when the night comes, that’s the moment your better half should carpool himself and have a good night sleep but it seems like she will meet her another man and there, in your partner’s another boy house, she could only have her good night sleep because you thought that your partner doesn’t even like and love you anymore. Apparently, your partner came in the middle of the night explaining that she had a meeting and that’s why she came late.

By then, you reveal the pictures, evidence that crept in to ruin your relationship, which your partner is having fun and sweet moments to another person (you thought that it should be you). Of course, your partner will only deny that and right after her explanations, you notice her marriage ring stuck in her finger and at that moment you just reminisce those sweetest moments you once had and now you overlooked those picture of evidence and you just forget all the wrongdoings of your wife and realize at the end of the day, your better half will only go back to you because you are her only better half and maybe she realized that there is no better place like home.

In a fight, where you have enemies to face because of doing such act to them that they don’t like to see in you (maybe they are just jealous enough to taunt you in a fight.) Surely, you inform your friends that you have a fight threat with your enemies and they will only say that, We got your back.

And now, you went to the meeting place with your friends where you should take down your enemies. The inevitable fight begins and there you have your enemies punching and roughing you around but realizes that you are not alone in that fight, you are not only the one who risk life, that there are your friends fighting and defining what your friendship means to them.

And after the fight, you will know who the best of your friends are, and those who still be just friends. You got to love the way it hurts when you expect your best friend to be the last man standing beside you after the fight, but suddenly he doesn’t give you a hand to help you, he just went away and will talk what happened in your fight.

And to those people who you didn’t expect to help you, stands out and prove to you who are the best of your friends are. They let you realize that friendship is just more than words that actions speak louder than words.

In a relationship, where you have this girlfriend of yours trying to be as honest as you want her to be, talked about her past relationships and experiences. Yes, at first we would like to know the things that happened in her life when we are not yet a part of her life but at the end, we regret not to hear or know about negative things that happened to her, the things that we don’t want to happen with our girlfriend because at the moment she said it, we might get turned off.

They said those things without hesitation because what they know is that you will accept her no matter what happened in her past. They knew that the truth will set them free and accept that past has passed. And you got to love the way it hurts, when you know that her past is not what you expected to know from her. Only your mind judged those aspects about her because as we all know we all want perfection. But only our heart can love her just the way she is.

In your birthday, where in that day you are expecting that your special someone will give you such time and have fun for some stuff, and there goes the evening where your birthday seems to end with no such happenings, romantic stuff that you did expect and you realize that your special someone couldn’t even send a single message or text to you where almost all of your friends, family and relatives had greeted you in their own little way.

And you are there in your room, surfing the net just to gather greetings from unexpected people, and you just notice that if you would only tell to your special someone that today is birthday, maybe she will have time to greet you the way you want it just to make your birthday complete.

But when the time you are about to sleep, someone’s beeping outside your house and someone just sent a message in your phone, and it’s your special someone and then all the worries and heartaches in your heart just went away while you are running down on your stairs just to let her know that you are wide awake waiting for her.

And your special someone told you a sweet excuse that the reason why she was late to greet you in your day is because she give the moment to your friends, family and relatives to greet you in daylight and she knew that in twilight, there will be no disturbance for the love that she will give to you, the romantic places where you want to be in your birthday and living your birthday to its fullest, and that’s the time that you could only tell that This is my day.

Like the old tune, No Pain, No Gain

Yes, and as a human being, you will have heartbreaks, stress, grief, depression, etc. but you must accept those inevitable in life and count it as your experiences in life. You will only love that feeling (of being hurt) when you already experienced that, and that's if another problem occurs but the same situation (there's a lot of situation not only these), and that's when you just pass up and let it hurt you again.

And that's the way you like it, you love the way it hurts. God Bless!