I Guess that's What Friends are For

Have you ever wondered about the true meaning of your relationship? Of what the both of you are friends are for? Or did you even bother yourself of what is your friendship are all about? Yes, you know that being in a relationship means that you are in the next level of what's the basic relationship we ever had, and that's where you came from, being friends.

And now, you are girlfriend's and boyfriend's, it doesn't mean that you should disregard the word friend on it, because as the both of you knew that you are not yet that committed to each other, you are not really into one. Those prefixes only mean that this boy/girl is the best boy/girl of all of your friends, that he or she knows all about who and what you are, but sometimes in other cases, they don't know of who and what is the real component of the personality of their girlfriend or boyfriend, maybe because you tryna change the personality of this boy/girl just to fit in to your life or the other way around and the worst thing is that the boy/girl tryna pretend of who to be someone else just to be loved by you.

I guess that is what our friends are for. You said to your girlfriend trying to explain what you just realize during the next step of your relationship. Let's say you love each other so much, maybe that's what your relationship or friendship are for, then suddenly you hate each other now, what do yo realize?

You realize that whatever the situation you both have in your friendship means that is what you're friendship with her/him, because you are not that committed to each other and that's why there is a friend word on the girlfriend/boyfriend relationship everybody has.

And if you think that you are committed enough to survive the challenges that will come through your way, maybe you are now ready to take the next big step and remove that friend word on that relationship you have. (Hey, I'm not saying that you should not be friends, I'm just saying that you are more than friends.)

And that will become girl (minus the friend word), means she is the only girl for you. That in all girlfriends and female friends you had, this is the only girl that you want to live your whole life with. And that's how she really means to your life. Have that jumpstart this morning! God Bless!