It Would be Such a Relief If I Knew that We Were on the Same Side

Have you ever been blessed by your fiancee's family about the relationship you have with their daughter? That they blessed that relationship because they believe and they have already put their trust on you that you won't hurt their daughter in any way that you know that can hurt her.

That her dad was fully convinced that her daughter was quite old enough to have the right of having a man that can protect her anytime now that he's not able to do so. Her dad just entrusted you every responsibility that a father must possessed, because he was convinced that you can give or provide the same way he had provided his daughter.

It would be such a relief if I knew that we were on the same side. You said to your fiancee's family when you already knew that you have their consent to have their daughter with you. They don't intend to put so much pressure unto you, but you have to live up to their expectations about what their daughter's future would become. It is not only about financial matters, but also every aspect that they've cared about their daughter, especially about their daughter's emotional aspect.

That they expect you to give the affection they used to give to their daughter, and it must be everyday and consistent about that matter, because that's the only thing that can make her remember about her family, she shouldn't feel that she was ever disconnected to her family because you are going to give as much affection as her family gave and she shouldn't feel that she is missing something that she used to have, and you must fill that void. You just don't want her to feel regret about having a family with you.

When you are asking for something that you want to have, is like you take that responsibility about that particular matter. And if it is in the relationship matter, it is not like a toy that every boy used to like then suddenly, after they have done whatever they like to do on that toy they will just throw it away or even think about giving it back to the store and asking for their money back.

You just can't do that on the relationship when the parents of your girlfriend cared so much about their daughter then you just let her feel that she doesn't have a family within you. That's why us, guys were so much tested about how can we handle such situation about having a relationship with their daughters.

So if you are afraid to meet your girlfriend's parents you just let your girlfriend feel that you are not up to the challenge, that you let her feel that you do not deserve her when she already knew that you are the one. So don't be afraid, cause there is nothing to be afraid if you think that you are capable of doing such. God Bless!