Is that What You Call Love?

Have you ever wondered to the love that you feel from your girlfriend? That you think that she is not giving the best out of her in terms of love? Or maybe you are thinking that she is too possessive enough on whatever you do?

Yes, that's how she shows off her affection to you or maybe that's the type of her personality that you loved most, but can you realize is that love? when you just love a certain particular thing or character about her and realize that you have been trapped. Why trapped? Because of loving this particular character about her, you didn't realize that her other characteristics will or can hurt you.

Is that what you call love? You ask yourself or your friends about that matter. That you love someone, not for who she was, but who she is when she is with you. (Maybe, in some cases, the girl will pretend that she really possess that certain character that you love, and the guy is understandably in the trapped area.)

Yes, and that's where your love begins, when you know that she is not the perfect person that the world can offer, you still love her despite her imperfections.

The sad part is, when she doesn't know what love is, that she already know in herself that she is pretending to the personality that you do love just to be with that kind of relationship or maybe she knows that her other attitudes hurt you and didn't even try to control it even if your relationship is on the line because of it.

And that is the perfect time to tell your girlfriend, Is that what you call love? When you know that she can't even contemplate about the situation, about the relationship you do love to have. It's about time to let her go and let her realize what she could have done just to keep the relationship and not to pretend just to be in that relationship. God Bless!