Where is the Love to be found?

Have you ever found the love you are looking for, where it supposed to be in the first place? That you are quite chasing it for a while when you always knew that it will only elude you to what you just want with it and that is an instant love from a distant where it cannot give you the love you wanna feel for an instance.

Finding love on certain people you wanna feel with it, eventually will hurt you in case that you always expect to what has been nearly granted for you because you think that you are quite important to them to be loved to. You expect it all the time when you know in yourself that you don’t even have that kind of love for yourself, not to be selfish in any sense, but whenever you would wanna feel the love from other people, make sure that you feel it first inside you that you love yourself the way others wanna love you in any form of love they wanna express for you.

Activate the love feeling, first inside yourself and not waiting for somebody to let you feel that you are loved because it could go the wrong way to what you just thought what love is, activate love to yourself first so that you can attract more of the love outside yourself and let them see that you are quite capable and really worth to be loved the way you want to be loved.

Where is the love to be found? You asked yourself every time you would fail about searching for it where you would just want to feel it. From Henry David Thoreau, Love is like a butterfly, the more you chase it the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come back to you when you least expect it. The more you chase love, the more it eludes you not because the moods of two persons involved are not in the alignment to have love, but because the other person is not quite ready to give exactly what the other person want to receive, not that she doesn’t worth it to but in a deeper sense of love and thought, that they should feel it first in themselves that they deserve some kind of love to where love is to be found in the first place.

When you just let it fly, not to let her go and have loved to the other person, but to let the trust and faith take place on how love was asked for you, and eventually at the time you are ready to fill in on where love is to be found, you could only feel the love full of joy because you realize that your life and love had gone full circle to what has been a fearful adventure if you just don’t put the faith and trust to take the place of love for you. When you have that kind of love when you least expect it, you just least expect it to have that kind of change where it doesn’t change at all, because of all the time you let it fly to where you and your partner would meet at certain point and time, you have that kind of fear of what if’s but you know that you eventually fight it with much stronger faith and trust just to feel that there will be always a love meant for the both of you at the time you would have to face each other.

Love yourself first; because you just can’t force someone to love you, what you could only do is to make yourself someone who can be loved. And you would never thought that life would be that sweet, when you had tasted all of what has life had offered unto you and still looking for where has love yet to be found. We know love is meant to be sweet, and as we treat ourselves to some kind of sweetness we could take in, we would know that we need somebody to treat us the way we just treat ourselves and that should be sweet in any sense.

Love is to be found somewhere in a candy store full of sweetness where you just can’t take your feet off to that ground and firmly believe that this candy store is where you really want to feel that kind of joy that only this store can give. Assorted candies ain’t fun at all; make sure to grab a certain box of chocolate which resonates to the love and joy you want to feel inside. God Bless!