I Won the Battle but I Lost the War
Have you ever thought that you are the right one in a conflict conversation that you and your partner have? That conflict conversation is li...
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Have you ever thought that you are the right one in a conflict conversation that you and your partner have? That conflict conversation is like you don't understand each other side and think that you are the one who prevail because you believe that you are the the one who is right and your partner is the who is wrong.
Yes, you will show your ego when you know and believe that you know better or you know what is right, but could you realize that you put your relationship at stake when you do such? They say it is too good too be true when you just let your partner win the battle, and it is so true because your partner is not the only one who wins the battle but also you, because you don't put your relationship at stake and know that if you do such, it might worsen the battle you have, it might ignite a war (not literally).
And when you continue to fight for your ego in that battle, at first you will think that you won the battle, but apparently you lost the war because you lost the trust of your partner because she knows that you are reliable upon arguments, that you will be open-minded on such conversation although you know better or know what is good, and she thinks that you will be the man who will support for her and not letting her to bring down in a pointless conversation of a relationship.
I won the battle, but I lost the war. You will say to yourself if you continue to fight for your ego, of what you know or what you believe. You will realize that in every battle you won in your relationship, eventually will be a lost in a war for you. Lost, because you've just ended your relationship because of your ego.
Yes, she was pushed over the edge and decided to leave the relationship out because of your winning streak victories that you think will matter if you love someone else. So see it to yourself, if you just win the battle or war. God Bless!
Yes, you will show your ego when you know and believe that you know better or you know what is right, but could you realize that you put your relationship at stake when you do such? They say it is too good too be true when you just let your partner win the battle, and it is so true because your partner is not the only one who wins the battle but also you, because you don't put your relationship at stake and know that if you do such, it might worsen the battle you have, it might ignite a war (not literally).
And when you continue to fight for your ego in that battle, at first you will think that you won the battle, but apparently you lost the war because you lost the trust of your partner because she knows that you are reliable upon arguments, that you will be open-minded on such conversation although you know better or know what is good, and she thinks that you will be the man who will support for her and not letting her to bring down in a pointless conversation of a relationship.
I won the battle, but I lost the war. You will say to yourself if you continue to fight for your ego, of what you know or what you believe. You will realize that in every battle you won in your relationship, eventually will be a lost in a war for you. Lost, because you've just ended your relationship because of your ego.
Yes, she was pushed over the edge and decided to leave the relationship out because of your winning streak victories that you think will matter if you love someone else. So see it to yourself, if you just win the battle or war. God Bless!
