I'm Gonna Use My Heart and Not My Head

Have you ever used your head in a relationship that you think will last if you just use your intellectual capability just to survive that relationship out? That if you plan everything about that relationship, you think that it will work out well and nothing is going to tear that relationship apart?

That you love your partner because that's what your mind is telling you and not your heart that beats for you. Heart that was overwhelmed by the mind, because only our mind can tell us what we must do and the only thing that can hold it back is your heart, where you have this inner guilt if you do such thing that is not according to your heart's desire.

First, we love someone because of their outside appearances and that's what the mind think about, but we cannot tell at once that we love this little creature because of their appearance, only heart can tell. Then as you go on in your friendship, you will see that it is not only their outside appearance that is amazing, but also their inner personality. Yes, and that's where your heart will function as a lover, you love them because of who they are.

If you love someone, you should use your heart and not mind. I'm not saying that you should not use your mind at all, use your mind for survival, maybe for the both of you to survive the relationship, (what to do, or what to change.) So starting today, use your heart, all your heart to make her feel that she is not your girlfriend by mind, but by heart. God Bless!