Defining Personal Magnetism

Have you ever met a person with such a high altitude when it comes to dealing with other people. Not to exceed other person's confidence while he's talking with him, but to make the other person understand that he has a mission and that mission might be, let us say, not too important for what the other person thinks of him, but you can see that he has a mission from where his desires came from or might up to.

That you can see it through his eyes, not that charming look, but that kind of intense look that he just want something out from you, and he really needs it. Okay, I'm not saying that you are one of the victims of this magnetic-personality guy but to let you realize that you should be aware the next time you encounter someone who has an intense desire for something and he might want it for an instant.

To know that you are dealing with a person that has a magnetic personality, you must realize these;

1. The gestures. When you are talking to a person with a lot of gestures pertaining to what he really wants you to know, and the way he act that particular gesture, will only make you realize of how much desire of what he really wants out from you or for himself.

2. The touch. When it comes to touch, primarily it varies to any kind of people, if they just feel it or not. Touch might have been an uncontrolled next gesture if he can't make you decide of what you are going to do or what he just want you to know. The pressure he put on his hands to touch or to hold you might varies to the feeling or care he has for you, or in some cases it varies on time of when he was supposed to get done a particular thing that includes you.

3. The voice. Some might have that good voice, but not all are quite convincing if they have to deal a certain kind of deal to get done. Good voice, in this case, maybe a particular person dealing with you that makes you think that you are going to be interested in certain kind of things. Convincing people/dealers are effective if they make the other person be interested to what they just want to make the other person to know or think.

4. The vibration of thought. When you response to what they have just said for you to think, they must have this kind of optimism to give the best possible feedback to what response you might give in to them like comment or something negative to make their confidence down to their knees.

You will know a person who has a magnetic kind of personality when he has a knack of killing down negative throw-downs to what they are firmly believing, which is what they just want you to believe in. Vibration of thought might have been the continuous flow of conversation even if the other person killing it then the other still holding on to his faith that he can get that deal done. Something like persistence to the things that he just want to happen.

If you just feel such person like this, then beware! Just kidding, just be amaze to this type of guy and just give what you can only give. At the end of the day, you are the only who can know that you feel good about the decision of giving up of what he just want from you or not. It is not all about the gut feeling, it is just knowing of what and who you are dealing with. God Bless!