I’m on My Way to Believe it

Have you been so doubtful to the love you felt from your girlfriend? That you doubt her because you know what her history was? That you were not impressed in the first impression you had on her and still holding it? Or that girl is your ex-girlfriend that regrets you and now begging for another chance, the only last chance she would have.

I’m on my way to believe it (you said to someone that, you now believed, changed.) Yes, at first, it’s hard to believe that someone has change but we should consider these; Time and experience. Yes, experience would be under time but I consider time as for maturity.

Maturity, maybe some based it on your age or maybe on your level of thinking. Maturity based on age should give you a lot of experience and happenings in your life, you know a particular knowledge that a normal child doesn’t. Maturity based on your level of thinking should give you a right personality, lifestyle, or a habit that a normal child doesn't.

Now, in experience, now that you are in mature state surely you know about this, about you. The incidents and happenings in your life intended or not, should affect your life and maybe a factor to change your life in a moment.

In our life, we forced somebody to change but when someone pleased you that this person was really changed, you do not believe it in that moment. Yes you can see now who is unfair. We don’t want to be fool (that’s right) but if someone pleased you that she has changed, don’t second guess just ask her what factor of her experience had changed her.

Yes, it is not easy to shift your emotions and trust to someone else let her prove that she has changed by not questioning it, just observe at it. Also, it is not hard to understand that someone has changed if and only if you are part of her change and secondly, if you experienced the change in yourself also. Have a nice day! God Bless!